The Reference Desk
12 Weeks of Personalized Email Coaching for the Questions That Matter Most
Some questions can't be answered with a Google search.
Some decisions need more than a quick conversation with a friend.
Sometimes you need someone who can help you sort through the noise, ask better questions, and help you see what you've been missing.
That's what The Reference Desk is for.
For 12 weeks, you'll have a dedicated place to bring the questions you're carrying—whether they're about your work, your finances, your leadership, your spiritual life, your next step, or simply trying to figure out what's true for you.
No Zoom calls.
No scheduling headaches.
No pressure to have everything figured out before you write.
Just thoughtful, personal guidance delivered straight to your inbox.
Investment: $297 one-time
That's 12 weeks of personalized support for less than $25 per week.
You don't need another course.
You probably already have plenty of information.
Books.
Podcasts.
Videos.
Advice from friends.
Opinions from strangers online.
The challenge isn't finding more information.
It's knowing which advice actually fits your life.
It's having someone help you untangle what's keeping you stuck instead of handing you another framework to follow.
That's where I come in.
I won't tell you who to become.
I won't ask you to hand over your authority.
I'll help you think more clearly so you can make decisions that feel right for you.
Why email?
Most coaching assumes everyone thinks best in real time.
Many people don't.
Writing gives you space.
You can slow down.
You can think before you respond.
You don't have to worry about saying the "right" thing.
You'll also end up with something valuable: a written record of your questions, your progress, and the insights you discovered along the way.
Many clients return to those emails long after our 12 weeks are over.
How it works
For 12 consecutive weeks, we'll follow a simple rhythm.
Friday: I'll send you a reflection question, prompt, or check-in.
By Monday: You'll reply with whatever is on your mind. Your response can be a few sentences or several paragraphs.
Tuesday: I'll send you a thoughtful, personalized response with questions, perspective, encouragement, and practical next steps where appropriate.
Then we repeat the process.
Simple.
Steady.
Supportive.
What you can bring to The Reference Desk
This isn't limited to one topic.
You can write about whatever feels most important that week.
That might include:
- Money decisions
- Business strategy
- Leadership challenges
- Spiritual questions
- Life transitions
- Relationships
- Creative projects
- Confidence and self-trust
- Personal growth
- Feeling stuck and not knowing why
Life isn't neatly organized into categories.
Neither is this.
By the end of 12 weeks, you'll have...
- More confidence in your own decision-making.
- Greater clarity around what's actually important.
- A written record of your growth.
- Better questions to ask yourself.
- Practical next steps instead of spinning in circles.
- Someone in your corner who helps you think instead of telling you what to think.
Is this for you?
The Reference Desk is a good fit if you:
- Think best by writing.
- Want thoughtful guidance without adding more meetings to your calendar.
- Appreciate honest questions more than quick answers.
- Are navigating work, money, leadership, spirituality, or a major life transition.
- Want support that respects your ability to make your own decisions.
This is probably not for you if...
- You're looking for therapy or crisis support.
- You want someone to tell you exactly what to do.
- You want instant text-message access throughout the week.
- You're looking for a structured course with lessons and homework.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long is The Reference Desk?
The Reference Desk is a 12-week email coaching experience.
What if I miss a week?
Life happens. If something comes up, we'll work with you to make sure you receive the full value of your 12 weeks.
Can I ask about different topics each week?
Absolutely. One week might be about your business. The next might be about money, relationships, leadership, or spirituality. You decide what needs attention.
Is this therapy?
No. The Reference Desk is coaching and strategic guidance, not mental health treatment.
Will we ever meet on Zoom?
No. This experience is intentionally email-only so you can think, write, and respond on your own schedule.
You don't have to figure everything out alone.
Sometimes the next step becomes clear simply because someone asked the right question.
If you're ready for 12 weeks of thoughtful support, I'd love to meet you at The Reference Desk.
$297 • 12 Weeks • Personalized Email Coaching
Amy Taylor
Before working with Michele, I was completely overwhelmed and didn’t have a real plan for what to do next in my business. I had all these ideas but no structure or direction — just a lot of mental clutter. Since starting email coaching with her, that’s completely changed. Michele has helped me get focused, create a weekly plan of action, and actually follow through on what I want to accomplish. Her support and accountability keep me moving forward, and I’ve gained so much clarity and confidence in the process. I’ve truly enjoyed every interaction and the steady rhythm her structure brings to my business.
Jennifer Ruff
My coach is amazing and actually listens to me and helps me come up with solutions to my issues.
Kimberly B.
Michele is very knowledgeable and thorough and I learned a lot about hot to better support myself as an individual.
Michele Lefler | Your Personal Librarian
I’m Michele Lefler — Your Personal Librarian. I help people make sense of complex lives without pretending they have to be “just one thing.”
I’m multipassionate.
So are the folks I work with.
You’re not a single shelf.
You’re a whole library — full of chapters, experiments, half-finished ideas, successes, regrets, and things you’re still figuring out. My work is about organizing that inner archive so you can finally see the story you’re actually living… and choose what comes next on purpose.
I support people who are tired of being told to pick a lane, niche harder, or quiet the parts of themselves that don’t fit the mold. We sort. We question. We get honest. And we build something steady from there — business, life, or both.
I’m clear about one thing: I’m done giving up my own authority.
And I won’t ask you to give up yours either.
My background in library and information science keeps me practical.
My spiritual work keeps me human.
Together, it means we stay grounded, curious, and real.
My north star is simple: truth, kindness, and respect.
No power games. No pretending. No talking down to you.
If you’re ready to stop forcing yourself into boxes that never fit and start building a life that feels coherent — not chaotic — let’s talk. I’d love to hear what shelves we’re working with and where you want the next chapter to go.
What You'll Get:
- 12 weeks of 1:1 Coaching via Email with tailored strategies, insights, and advice based on your unique situation.
- Clarity on Your Priorities Identify what matters most and stay focused on actions that create real results.
- Built-In Accountability Each week, we’ll track progress, celebrate wins, and adjust your plan to keep you moving forward.